Is it really good to blame someone for no reason at all, and is it good if others copy and pick on the blamed person too?

years ago i used to get involved with petty argument and liston to gossip, but now ive got older i dont want to no and its just people with nothing else better to do, you feel a better person if you dont get involved, and the worse place to say something is facebook you could write a comment and holy war breaks out how sad are some people lol

Well Sunflower I guess that sometimes people just love to knock others ( normally just to atone for their own lives being in a mess ) and if they can jump on somebody else's 'bandwagon' then so much the easier. MY mother was a classic example of this, always venamous about everyone who cared about her and more often not blaming me for everything in her life ( I was the only child ). She was simply misguided and not very good at dealing with her own emotions.

No, sunflower, it's never good to do those things. I think Snoopy's right about the reason people do this. The answer is simple...always speak your own truth, never someone else's, and treat others as you would like others to treat you.

Isnt that something women do to men once a month?

I was blamed once for being toooo happy can you believe it!

Pardon!

Humans usually behalf this way in order to be liked by the group they are part of. Group psychology techniques are used in many ways to influence and convince others - be aware and don't just go with the majority - isn't it better to make your own analysis and conclusions ?

So many questions that have nothing to do with the topic of money. MONEY.CO.UK the clue is in the name.