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Yesterday, I received news of an engagement. I'm on a very slim budget for this, as it's an unplanned expense.
I spent the whole night last night looking for an engagement gift, but my search wasn't particularly helpful. By the end of the night, I was looking into gift hampers, but they're all so expensive and even more so if you want to customise your own.
So, to cut costs down, I wonder if anyone has any hamper-related advice? Most importantly, a main, high-street shop that will sell a suitable but affordable box or basket, as even gift boxes seem incredibly expensive!
I love making hampers. They are really personalized gifts and show that you have put some thought into what you are giving. Whilst you can use cardboard boxes in lieu of a wicker hamper there are so many other unusual containers that you can find that can actually be part of the gift. I love TK Maxx for finding unusual items and as long as it will hold whatever you want to put in it the world is your oyster. Use your imagination and find something that will be loved and used by the people you are buying for. It doesn't have to be brand new as long as you feel it is something they will use or appreciate. Car boots can be great places to pick up unusual items and think about what they enjoy doing as a couple. Are they looking to buy their first home, planning a holiday away somewhere, any joint interests that they do together? For £20 -£30 I think you will be able to give them a very special present.
Could you not buy some essentials yourslef and get a basket off ebay? How much are you going to spend on it? Couldnt you give them that amount in Gift Vouchers?
I'm not sure about giving gift vouchers as I want them to feel that I've put more thought into the gift. That's also why I don't want to go for the cheapest hampers I see for sale, as most don't include things that I know they'd like - I'd rather make my own for a similar price.
I intended to spend somewhere in the region of £20-30 maximum, and have been thinking of including a miniature bottle of wine, some chocolates, maybe a nice keepsake. I can't really buy the basket off eBay as I'd ideally like to be sure of its size before making my purchases, and I only have a week to have the basket ready.
Fair enough. How about a nice photo frame? Nice to put an engagement photo in? Or a nice vase and a bunch of flowers?
I like the home-made approach. There's something about receiving gift vouchers which appears to me like someone can't be bothered about buying me a present, or just forgot about it. You definately would need some flowers in it, try and ask what flowers they are having at the wedding, see if you can match it, =).
Also try and find little items that are just fun. NTB was right the the picture frames etc, but make sure you just make the effort and get a picture printed in to it because if you give them an empty frame, it'll prob stay like that the rest of the marriage!!
Yes that is very true, although if they were saving for something in particular vouchers might come in handy. Can you not ask a close family memeber if ther eis anything they are looking to get?? The Hamper idea is lovely though.
They haven't posted anything yet but I'm sure they will soon, =). Smartcar posted some tips if I remember rightly about making gift hampers and found them quite helpful. Either that or it was a suggestion off one of these questions. Either way, I think you would be on here for ages trying to look, so I'd recommend you contact her, she helped me! =)
I'd never buy one from shops. I agree with you, they're just far too expensive for me. I even prefer to make them myself because at least then you can personalise it to whoever's taste, can't you? Why not find out some of their favourite items? If you've buying them a hamper, then surely you know them to some degree, so you have the advantage of making it personal, and unique. Hope they like it.
Can I just ask, what is the budget or what is the budget range??
i agree do not buy one pre made they are very expensive
I made Christmas Hampers last year, got the baskets from ASDA I think, out of the home department, (think they were meant for the bathroom) they were wicker baskets with material inside and weren't very expensive. I then made a list of all the things I wanted to put in it and shopped around to try and find the best deals. I love making hampers and feel people really appreciate the effort you put in and the personal touch that goes along with it. Good luck :)
That's cool. SO how much do you think you saved by doing it like this? They can give you a very nice feeling when you give them to the person as you know you've put a lot of thought into it. It's better than a simple gift of something like vouchers or money. =)
Thank you very much for this answer. I hadn't even thought of using a laundry basket rather than a 'gift' basket.
I ended up finding one on Wilkinsons Plus website for £3 that looks like it'll do the job, AND was influenced to use Asda to buy things to go in it! Looks like I'm all set.
There was a thread about hampers a couple of weeks ago - we made up some Christmas gift hampers last Christmas for our parents as we were struggling what to get them and they were very much appreciated. We bought laundry type baskets from Matalan (also saw them in Tesco and some pound shops) for £3-4 and then filled them with nice goodies from the local delicatessen, farm shops & treats that were on offer in the supermarket.
Because it was personal to their tastes, they loved them and the personal touch was pretty rewarding for us as well. We're definitely going to do it again this year but I think we'll start picking up things earlier so its not as much to buy at one time just before Christmas.
For an engagement present, why don't you get them some travel size fancy toiletries, nice bottle of wine, chocolates and personal things they like?
me too done the same
i think i will do this for my mum for xmas! how come everybody on here is soo creative??? :)
Hampers can be picked up on ebay, or ask on freegle/freecycle, or just decorate a cardboard box, you can jolly it up with packaging. I sold 4 hampers on ebay as had a year of winning hampers, but none this year, sadly.Good luck.
How much would you make on average off a hamper??
i never thought about selling hampers! thats facinating did you make money off them or?
probably worth £20 but sold approx £10-£12, so not profitable but makes space!
Engagement gifts I have often bought when a bit hard up have tended to be items I myself found most useful over the years.They include, A really good all round cookery book like Delia Smith's Complete cookery course, I got one as a wedding present many yrs ago and used it often as I was learning in the earlier years of home making. More recently I would get it on amazon at cheaper price than local, and free postage. Then gift wrap it with a nice personal message inside. Also I have in past given a useful size of pyrex dish and lid as an engagement present if person was not such close aquaintance but I still wanted to wish them well. A good sturdy old fashioned enamel roasting tin and lid in a small to medium size for a small joint of meat/small chicken for a couple on Sunday or at suppertime is also useful. Also one time I made up a parcel with the cookery book, a sturdy wooden clothes brush I bought in a supermarket but removed from packaging and wrapped instead in tissue and it looked so much better, and a set of shoe leather cleaning brushes with wooden backs, I again wrapped in tissue and wrote what they were on a note within the tissue to distinguish as shine brushes are different from application brushes etc.These are very useful things that most newlyweds will otherwise just have to go and get when they start a new home. I hope this provides some food for thought.
thats a really good point to buy it off amazon then wrap it yourself as it must seem alot more personal than that!
You can't go wrong with a hamper as a gift i have made many for all occasions and as you have made it yourself it is far far a much better gift, the most i have made are for christmas, new baby's nappie cake! and gifts for birthays it works out much cheaper
and quite original! i doubt your at risk of having given the same gift of someone else! :)
no they are a brilliant gift
We are making one at the moment for my son who's first baby is due Sept 9th. We padded a delivery box with bubble wrap and covered in fabric as good as any you can buy. We bought items for the box throughout the daughter in laws pregnancy and its packed. It will make an excellent start for them.
that's the way to do it good luck on the birth
thats really well thought out! :D when my sister in law was pregnant i wish we'd been that organised with gifts!
First grand child its got to be worth the effort as it is special to me.
i think you could make your own, best hamper i have ever seen was a wicker basket full of gifts the couple liked. my dad recieved in his a cookbook, a house manual, some champagne and a photoalbum with pictures of them but mostly empty. as well as a nice blanket to protect the gifts! im going to have more of a think about this as its quite interesting! :)
You've already had advice on buying the basket. Other ideas: look for some vintage fabric to line it - you may well pick up a tablecloth or perhaps cotton curtains at a charity shop which you can wash, iron and cut to fit. A sparkling wine would be good I think and maybe something like champagne chocolates taken out of their box and put into a pretty jar (try Ikea for these) tied with a ribbon. If you are handy with a needle maybe you could make some heart-shaped lavander bags(you can find heart templates online - Google) then add little luxury items like some canned pates or Italian pasta from a deli.
Once you've got your box pop to the supermarket just before closing and stock up on some of the stuff that they have reduced like bread, meat, milk, cakes etc. This will fill the hamper really cheaply.
On a more serious note, you could buy 2 or 3 luxury items and mix with less expensive but thoughtful gifts. Hampers are a great idea but you need to be careful you don't end up spending too much trying to fill it.
Ikea is also a good place to look, both for the hamper itself and for gifts to put in it. How about some candles?
There are sites that show you how to make these sort of things. On moneysavingexpert, there is a forum for this type of thing, and you can view what other people have added and adapt to what you want. Alot of them are based around towels (or nappies for babies), and they look very effective. It also shows the person you have thought about what to put into the parcel and saves you money in the process.
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